Ayurveda Genesis

Guide to Life Management

We get 3 types of relationships in this world.

a) Direct Relationships - With birth we bring relations like papa, mama, brother, sisters etc

b) Indirect Relationships - Relatives of direct relations

c) Destiny's Gifted Relationships - We meet people even though never planned or tried to get them.

d) Self Created Relationships - We get desires to develop relations with certain people.

In all of these relations, it is very difficult to figure out which relation is good and bad. As without tasting the fruit, it is very difficult to judge about its taste whether is it bitter or sour or sweet.

Similarly without testing relationship it is difficult to judge how is relation going to be. Even if you judge you have no rights to drop the sour or bitter relationships as they are given to you by destiny. One cannot say that one will accept only sweet relationship. Otherwise it is too selfish to take sweet relations and drop the other relations. So life is not to keep testing the relations, rather it is to accept it and make it best by your adding your sweet behavior to it.

I am sure there is no guarantee to get only sweet fruits in our life, we may expect thats different issue. We may get any or all mixed, usually we get mixed fruits like relations. Some people whom we deal with can be very sweet or nice or very rough like sour fruit and very difficult like bitter fruits. I am impressed by Sun that it never increase or decrease the mercy of his sun rays because one tree gives sweet fruit and another bitter or sour.

So WE HAVE NOT TO BEHAVE ACCORDING TO BEHAVIOR OF PERSON RATHER IT IS OUR GOODNESS WHICH SHOULD BE CONTINUED LIKE SUN, TO BE GOOD TO ALL IN SAME WAY.

In Same way Krishna is merciful on all of us equally irrespective of our good and bad. So whatever Krishna has given to us, we have to accept it and behave nicely as per our nice nature. By following such attitude we can add sweetness to all relations and make wonderful unique relationship.

By adding sweet to lemon juice it becomes very good unique taste and by adding sweet to bitter chocolate we make it wonderful edible, Similarly by adding our sweet attitude in all relations we make them unique and wonderful.

Dr Tanmay Goswami